Sex and Energy…So Important!!!


As a Shamanic Therapist, I witness first hand the negative results that occur under certain types of sexual interactions. This is probably the main reason why most religions promote abstinence. I find it unfair to tell someone not to do something without explaining the real reasons why, thus this article.

We are energetic beings, everything we do from the beating of our hearts or just plain breathing requires energy, but other activities we normally would not think of also require and/or produce much energy. From a Shamanic perspective, emotions and thoughts are of crucial importance, because these produce a certain vibration in our aura and this will activate the “Law of Attraction” whether we want it or not.

Sex will make our auras vibrate at a very high pitch. From a metaphysical point of view, it is one of the highest outputs human beings can achieve; it is no wonder that this is the act that is used to facilitate the creation of a new life in our world. Some occult religions and secret societies use sex as a vehicle for manifestation. The principle is simple, through ritual the force is not directed towards procreation of a new life but towards the manifestation of a desired product. The problem is that this violates Universal Law and so Karma is produced.

Sex practiced as the result of pure lust, takes the whole concept to an even lower level, because as I mentioned before at this vibration  the “Law of Attraction” is activated. Lust, in the scale of desires a human being can feel is very low, it is at the very base. This is also a reason why it may be included as one of the “Seven Deadly Sins”, by “deadly” they are talking about the soul. Think about it, if someone is in the heat of lust, chances are their thinking is not clear, and the virtuous emotions are overshadowed by the present emotions and at this rate energies are being attracted at a very fast rate. The problem is that these energies are not being filtered by our free will. In other words, at this vibration you are open to anything that wants to come into your field and this corresponds to the level of the vibrations of lust. Hint: This type of sex is usually surrounded by potential abuses, addictions and diseases. This is not scientific, it is energetic in its elemental make up.

So when and how should SEX be practiced??? Unlike the big religion institutions that tend to give a rigid answer or the alternative of hell for eternity, I heal people and care for them and sense their needs and emotions when I interact with them, so my answer will be more practical and with more potential for the use of “free will”. Every time you share a sexual experience with someone, your aura will light up to one of its maximum capacities, the other person(s) you are with will do the same and in those exact moments your destinies will be influenced by the vibrations emanating from both of you in the form of the “Law of Attraction”. Excellent questions to ask yourself when considering or being tempted to have sex are:

“Are these circumstances, situation or persons WORTHY?”

“What will I attract as I vibrate very highly with this person?”

“Will this person (unknowingly) use my aura for their agenda in manifestation?”

This is also the reason why on a healthy and loving relationship sex never “feels” wrong. If it does, or the relationship is not healthy for you, but the sex is wonderful, you are in lust. As a final piece of advice, it is also important to understand and know the difference between Lust and Passion.

There is so much more to talk about with this subject, as a matter of fact sex is so intimately fused with spirituality, that it’s incredible  to me, there aren’t tons books about it out there. I’ll probably get back to this subject in a near future, there’s much more I am not including right now…

Many Blessings,

Fr Flavio

The Importance of Giving



Have you ever wondered why the wealthiest people always seem to have some sort of charity? The principle is simple, money is energy and energy loves to flow; If you’d like to increase the inflow just open up the outflow. What is making your outflow clogged? Fear and thoughts of limitation. When you save for a “rainy day”, this translates to the Universe as: “Ohhh great I have money now, and yes, thank you, but I really don’t trust you that much, so in case you decide to screw me later on, I’m going to take my own precautions, thank you very much…”. The suggested alternative, is giving first and then saving for anything you would love to “spend” on later, in this course of action, you communicate to the Universe: “Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for blessing me, I am so grateful, I will share this feeling and gift with your other children and creations. I will make sure others know of your magnificence and generosity”

In the art of manifesting, two human ingredients are crucial, Attention and Intention. In the above paragraph we focussed on “Attention” in abundance rather than in lack. Now we will focus on “Intention”. If you are giving with the sole intention of receiving, by default and through universal law the inflow will increase, but certain secondary conditions and coincidences will happen as well to attract your attention to caring for your fellow brothers. On the other hand if your intention is focussed on “feeling” good and making others “feel” good as well, the benefits of the increased inflow will come without any secondary attachments. The intention must always be as happy, exciting, grateful and loving as possible.

Our physical world is a direct result of the vibrations our thoughts and emotions are putting out. This is why when Giving, it is crucial to be alert against hidden limiting thoughts or emotions that may have crept in our subconscious in the past. For example, you decide to donate to some charity, but then you consider how much to give and end up giving a little beyond your comfort zone. That sense of  “this may have been too much” is being put out there and it will attract those situations to your surroundings. Let’s say you don’t really trust the management of the charity; that distrust will also be attracted to you. A good way to keep away from unneeded vibrations is to give little, very often and as anonymously as possible.

Try this for a couple of weeks and when the influx begins, make sure to give this article a second browse to start the cycle again but in a larger scale. May you soon be blessed with and in generosity!

Understanding your Reflection



There are many “Universal Laws”, one that has become very popular is the “Law of Attraction”. It’s principle is simple, if you visualize and feel the way you think you would with a desired object or situation, then you will vibrate at that frequency, which by attraction will bring the object or situation into your life. This premise is simple and workable, however not always reliable because there are many subconscious and unconscious thoughts thus beliefs already within us that will hamper the attraction process.

There is another approach to accessing the “Law of Attraction”, it is through “reflection”. Here’s how it works, look around you right now, just casually observe your life and the areas you’d like to improve within it. Whatever state your life is right now is a perfect reflection or the thoughts, beliefs and vibrations you are putting out. Through your reflection, you can understand what you need to shift in your daily thoughts. Here’s an example, let’s suppose you just caught the flu and you are aware that it usually lasts about four days. Well, the idea that it usually lasts four days is a thought that you are putting out. Actually, the fact that you caught the flu, is the result of a thought that manifested this reality in your life. So, through, reflection, now you know that you are putting out subconscious thoughts of flu manifestation. Now you are aware that this is a manifestation where you need to implement consciously new everyday thoughts. If your mind is not accepting what I have just written, good, it means you are normal and it also means your thoughts have solidified into a belief about catching the flu. A belief is nothing more than a long term series of thoughts fitting nicely together in your mind to create a constant manifestation in your life. It is what many of us would call facts.

If you would like to change something in your life, first look at the reflection of your thoughts through your manifested reality. Then, question the belief of why things are the way they are. Finally change the thoughts about the belief. Here’s a practical example: Say you are allergic to cats. Well there are stories of people that can command their bodies to recognize the cat dander as harmless thus eliminating the allergy. This could be the thought that could start the belief that will vibrate a manifestation of no more allergies to cats. Here’s another one, ” I am so tired”, this is a reflection of a belief that has manifested into those symptoms. First, you could “Think” that it does not have to be that way, then believe that it does not have to be that way, within a few days a shift will happen in your manifested reality. If later you find yourself getting tired again, use that reflection as an indication of your thought vibrations and adjust them again into a belief.

So a tidy conclusion of the process would be: Your reality is a reflection of your most common thoughts, don’t get frustrated with the reflection, welcome the reflection as an indicator of which thoughts need to be monitored and adjusted.

I just Saw Something in my Physical Reality, Was it a Sign?



For the Shaman, the “other” side is reality and this physical existence is the illusion. In the Mystery Schools, one of the first Laws learned is, “As Above so Below…”. This by the way is a Law that also applies in a physical level. For example, in Traditional Chinese Medicine it is a fact that your face will show the conditions of your organs, or a child’s behavior will exhibit signs of the condition inside the household, or in a corporation customer service will reflect the philosophy of the company, etc. But going back to the physical signs, the short a plain answer is “Yes”, anything that happens in your external world is reflecting something of equivalent energy occurring in your internal world. With some invested contemplation one can tell it is pretty much the “Law of Attraction”.

Let’s say, you walk out your door and across the street you see a dog chasing a cat, sounds irrelevant right? But, let’s reconsider that you came out at that exact intersection of time and space to witness that small surge of energy happening at a safe distance; this is the Law of Attraction in action. What could it mean? Well, here is where people get logical and analytic. I won’t waste your time giving examples of things that a logical person may think; instead just observe the energy that you witnessed, and what emotions it slightly aroused, think and remember what dogs, cats and chases may/could represent in your unique life experience. Do that for a few seconds and then let it go and continue with your everyday affairs. Later on if curiosity visits you again, ponder on what it could have meant. Two things will occur, you will either not get it at all, in which case, know/trust that another message with a similar energy signature will arrive soon. The other alternative is that you will be pretty certain of the meaning of what you witnessed, in that case write it down and implement it immediately. No matter what the perceived message, it is crucial that it be implemented immediately, this is because you are honoring the contact and you are acting on faith in your intuition, these intentions are noted on the other side and are used later on for more direct communications. This same principle can be used for dreams.

This is why many of us when we want to receive an answer for a healing or service or a simple question, we just take a walk in nature. we acknowledge the landscapes, rocks, plants, animals and any happenings. Once something attracts our attention, now we know it’s time to grasp the loving message and implement it immediately. This is also why we Shamans can be of such assistance, because as you relate your stories and what you have witnessed to us, we can tune in to your vibration and translate something that cannot be understood logically. Remember, if you have any doubts, you can always make a comment and I’ll gladly assist.

May you always be aware of the constant Loving communication emanating from The Great Mystery…