It is never their fault! Blamers, will always be filled with stories that they will want to sell you. There will always be an adversary in their many stories. Adversaries for their emotional pain, financial downfall, physical discomforts, depressions, getting fired, etc.

As a Shaman, I mostly pay attention to the way a person talks to me, usually more than what they are saying. Blamers tend to have this “need” for me to believe their “story”. There is always this push and pressure to get me on their side and to dislike someone or something I’ve never heard of.

It is easy to blame, but much harder to look within accept responsibility and make to effort to improve. Working on yourself or something you’d like to build up requires time. This is why blamers will also tend to look for instant easy solutions to complex problems. Complex situations in life dealing with relationships, legalities, health, etc. compels us to change our ways. When life gets turbulent, the first place to look for a solution is always within.

Why Bad People Don’t get Bad Karma

Have you ever had a relationship with a narcissist? How can these people continue being so self-centered and destructive for so long without Karma stopping them? First let me share that we are addressing energy and so all this information applies for what is perceived as positive or negative energy.

What is known as Karma, or the “Law of Cause and Effect”, meaning all the energy you put out will reflect in experiences to you at some point, has a “time lapse”. The timing will depend on various factors. Aspects like other souls needing a lesson, or one’s personal blueprint will influence this timing. The speed at which this energy will return is mostly based on three components:

  • Focus, How much of this behavior comprises your attention
  • Intent, A specific goal is chased as the behavior in question is repeated
  • Awareness, There are ignored secondary events building up

If someone has a tendency to verbally abuse another, Karma will diffuse the situation faster if the aggressor’s focus and intent is not destructive and he/she is not aware of the pain being caused. In an opposite situation, where the aggressor is fully aware and determined to create pain. Karma will allow the aggressor to exercise his/her free will and will keep perfect score until the conditions are right for the lesson to manifest. People with greater capacity to harm will have greater lessons which will take longer to manifest. Finding yourself next to a destructive person then, means you should immediately exercise your free will and distance yourself from this toxicity. There are no victims, but there are co-creators. Staying in an abusive situation hoping for Karma to kick in would actually make you a co-conspirator of the aggressor’s descent. It would create Karma for you as well. Lastly, Karma tends to be internal and private. It is not meant for others to witness, enjoy or speculate on how one person is dealing with his/her Karmic Debts.

Decisions Dictate your Future

Manifestation Energy, not just looks at the Decisions you make but also, just as importantly, it pays strong attention to the Intentions behind those decisions. The decision will be apparent in the material realm, but the intentions will activate the energy required for future manifestations of positive or negative experiences.

On this same principle then, what you are dealing with today is the result of decisions made in the past at undetermined times. This is why the wisest people will deal with immediate situations, but their main focus will be in making decisions for a more harmonious future. This is specially true when dealing with human relations. It can be seen by all of us in the attitude of certain family members. Some just think of themselves and instant gratification, while others are undoubtedly constant and reliable for life.

This is one of the laws this “life process” uses for our soul’s evolution. This is also why I stress so much that we never forget that at all times we enjoy absolute “free will”. Even in a scenario where we’d be locked up and restrained, how we’d think, feel…vibrate would always be under our conscious control. This is a Universal Law that will always yield what we energetically sow.

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Increase your Healing Power

Actively disagreeing, criticizing and even worse, hating, will really stress your internal vibration. Humans are a Divine Creation, which by its nature manifests out of Love. Humans are also endowed with Free Will and this gives us the flexibility to think, feel and act as we choose, which is Vibration. What we perceive as negative vibration, will negatively influence anything it has a relationship with, including the thinker, feeler, doer.

What we perceive as “bad” is not the question, what matters is that your vibration be as positive as possible. For this I suggest an exercise I developed sometime ago. Take the “Devil’s Advocate” position on everything you strongly disagree with. Try to find the way to sympathize with those opposing ideologies and the people that follow them.This does not need to be permanent, just vacillate on your perspective for some time. In other words, shift your vibration. This is very inwardly healing and will reconnect you with your Divine Essence.

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Using your Sleep Cycle for Success

Every morning as we step off our bed, we’ll discharge an energetic signature through this Space-Time Reality. Later, as we end the day and go back to bed, in sleep many of those energetic signatures will return to us. This phenomenon explains why dramatic deaths tend to produce hauntings. Strong energetic traces are being exuded and they get imprinted in that space, essentially replaying an energetic event in time.

Knowing this principle can help us choose which energies we’d like to increase or decrease within our life experience. If we had a really rough day interacting with someone, before going to bed those memories and emotions are consciously banned from returning to your energetic field. Speaking it out loud is one of a few techniques to achieve this. It also helps to get rid of memory triggers related to the event. Things like clothing, small objects, music, places, choices of food, etc. If there was a really positive event in the day, then mentally exaggerate it and it will multiply its effects. If possible, relate it happily as if someone next you was listening (which within the Spiritual Realm someone always is!). Let’s say, you could have done better in some other situation. Replay the event in your mind with the most successful outcome. Mentally know that this intent will favorably adjust the energy of the actual event and also the perceptions of others that were involved in it. Sleep yourself to be a winner!

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Why I Dislike: “Never Quit”

Shamanism starts from the premise that everything is in perfect harmony at all times. We are always supposed to be healthy, happy, wealthy, etc. If deviated from our intended Path then things naturally guide us back into harmony by “not working” the way we expect.

“Never Quit” already starts from a position of struggle. It implies you fighting back and not backing down (or willing to, which can make you irrational). A Shaman would ask: “Not backing down from what?” This world is not out to get you. I must admit sometimes, unevolved people are, but even then it is always a lesson.

When Mother Nature finds herself at an impasse, She will find a way around it. Walk The Path of of the Wise. Set your aims in what provides the most harmony in your life. Foresee and avoid the people, situations and things that carry toxicity. I would recommend: “Never Loose Faith!”

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The Devil’s Greatest Weapon against You

Heard of “Think and Grow Rich”? The author, Napoleon Hill, followed that book with “Outwitting the Devil”. This book relates Napoleon Hill interviewing The Devil. I read it as part of my official mystical indoctrination in the Mystery School. The concept that always remained with me out of this book was the Devil’s reliance on “Habits” humans adopt.

I read the book more than a decade ago, but I do remember the Devil telling Hill, that once humans adopt a habit, he’ll wait and eventually taint them through it. All Habits will create inertia and cycles. Inertia will naturally develop a force (and even direction) of its own. Cycles by Polarity will have ups and downs (perceived as positives and negatives). The stronger the habit, the stronger the negative orbital force. Be slow and deliberate when ADOPTING new habits. Always revisit old habits and asses them for their benefits versus the hidden liabilities.

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Embrace your Ego!

Your Ego is an intrinsic part of you and it is to be understood, loved and patiently indoctrinated. It is a construct of your super amazing mind. Created to help you cope with this world as an self governing individual. It is a filter that creates the illusion that we are separated energetically from the “All”. This unique perspective helps us make transcendental decisions on a moment to moment basis in order to experience and grow as souls within this material realm.

You are barely your ego. You are mostly your Soul, but the ego is a part of you and it is designed by Mother Nature to help you navigate among others while you evolve here. Talk to yourself with the intention of addressing your ego and remind it that You are infinite, divine, magical, indestructible and ever loving. Seek inner calmness and peace in the current moment and gently tell your ego:“See? Everything is good!”

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Acknowledging the Magic of “I’m Sorry”

No Animals were hurt in the taking of this picture (Specially Maldi). He was sleeping and when I approached him for the photo he just put this “sorry” face

One of the most beautiful tools I have found so far in my human existence are the words, “I’m Sorry”. It has fixed so many situations, so fast, with so many people, in so many circumstances. From my own wife (often) to total strangers in a crowd when coming from the heart it works magically. We apologize based on someone’s feelings, not the facts! Meaning, that you may say something in all benevolence but if it offends someone else, in this case the message was misunderstood so it is retracted and re-transmitted with an apology.

What fascinates me is that regardless of how emphatic the person in front of me is, they can always tell if the words are coming from the heart. Even angry drunks will immediately calm down if you really mean you are sorry. Speaking of dealing with irrational people, when you use these words, you truly are sorry that someone may have misunderstood your words, gestures or a scenario. I has nothing to do with diminishing your status. At all times in all conflicts, we should honestly be sorry, because the Path of an Enlightened person is one of Harmony.

Lastly, when someone that matters says or does something that requires an apology to you. Regardless of your feelings, this is an opportunity to establish the how you’d like to be treated. Observe closely if the apology is sincere. People that Love you never want to hurt you, and will naturally feel sorry (or will get upset that they made a mistake). Toxic people either just want to move on from that moment or secretly enjoy having one upped you. With these don’t escalate things, let it go temporarily, allow emotions to cool off and bring it back again at least 24 hours later. Observe closely their reaction again. Remember, the Wise Person, Observes…and Decides.

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Social Media Super Success!!!

Tons of followers!

Your content goes viral!

You are an Influencer!

People love you and can’t wait for your latest selfie or opinion!

I just recently came from vacation, shared a little about my travels and got a little more attention than usual. The vacation also revitalized me, so I find myself inspired to write more posts or do videos. To my surprise more attention doesn’t really motivate me. Every time I share something online, I only have one very specific person I dedicate my work to. In my Heart my true hope is to touch just One Person in need. Just one! Just to give hope, inspiration, advice, caring words to One fellow human brother or sister. Time doesn’t even matter, what I wrote today, may actually help someone long after I’m gone. I may even be off target in my experiences and ideas, but one thing is guaranteed, my heart is always pure and true in everything I share. There are no agendas or tricks to manipulate the exposure. I can’t begin to tell you the wellness that sharing material in this way creates for your inner life. Try it! You’ll see what I mean when a simple post that very few liked, touches someone’s heart or fixes someone’s day a few months after posted.

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