The human mind will always tend to “Define” situations, good, bad, so so, etc. And yet after so many years of existence we still don’t realize that nothing is static…all is in constant evolution. At best whenever describing a situation, person or object, one should be mindful that they are only in a current state of “Transition”.
Defining something or someone, creates a mental box within the thinker, thus the thinker’s vibration becomes less conducive to manifesting in the desired direction. Maintain your mind, judgements and ideas liquid and your world will naturally flow towards your greater harmony and inner fulfillment.